| Baptism
at Grace Lutheran Church
For those
who wish to know more about baptism, two sections are included on this
page. The first states what we believe about baptism. Below you will find
more information about how to be baptized, what is involved, and how you
can get started.
What we
believe about Baptism
1. We
baptize infants
It is clear from the New Testament that children in the early church were
baptized. For example, consider this passage from the Acts of the Apostles,
the fifth book of the New Testament:
At that hour
of the night the jailer took them and washed their wounds; then immediately
he and all his family were baptized.
-- Acts 16:33
Some church
bodies choose to only baptize adults, believing that one must be old enough
to make a decision. We believe that baptism is primarily God's action,
not ours. In baptism, we receive the seal of God's promises in our lives:
the promise of forgiveness and the gift of eternal life. We do not earn
this by our decision or commitment. It is a free gift.
We do, however,
choose to receive this grace by making promises of our own. We do recognize
that before one is baptized, someone has to make a decision to be baptized:
either the parents, deciding to baptize the child and raise him/her in
the Christian faith, or the adult to be baptized and become a follower
of Christ, and a member of the church.
Although
the principal actor in baptism is God, we acknowledge that we are not
entirely passive in the process. Therefore we profess our faith in Christ
Jesus, reject sin and confess the faith the church, the faith in which
we baptize. Parents and sponsors commit to attending to the child's religious
instruction at home and at church. Adults commit to worship and growing
in faith through Bible study, fellowship and service.
2. We are baptized into Christ Jesus and into his death.
We are buried
with Christ through Baptism into death, so that, in the same way Christ
is risen from the dead by the glory of the Father, thus also must we walk
in a new life.
-- Romans 6
The apostle
Paul, who wrote many of the letters in the New Testament, understood baptizing
as a dying to, or renunciation of, our old self, and then a rising to
a new life in Christ. As people of faith that fall into sin, we need to
daily return to our baptism, die again and rise once more. This is one
of the reasons that we usually have a prayer of confession and an announcement
of God's forgiveness at most services at Grace.
And now what
are you waiting for? Get up, be baptized and wash your sins away, calling
on his name.'
-- Acts 22:16
It means
that the old Adam in us should be drowned by daily sorrow and repentance,
and die with all sins and evil lusts, and, in turn, a new person daily
come forth and rise from death again. He will live forever before God
in righteousness and purity.
-- Martin Luther, Small Catechism
3. Baptism
is initiation into the church, the body of Christ.
While we are baptized into Christ Jesus, we are also baptized into the
church.
13For we
were all baptized by one Spirit into one body-whether Jews or Greeks,
slave or free-and we were all given the one Spirit to drink
27Now
you are the body of Christ, and each one of you is a part of it.
-- I Corinthians 12:13 and 27
4. Christ
commanded the church to baptize.
Go, therefore,
and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father
and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to observe all
that I have commanded you, for lo, I am with you always, even to the close
of the age.
-- Matthew 28:19-20
It is part
of our mission to make disciples, by baptizing and teaching. Baptism and
learning are bound together in the business of discipleship. None of this
is optional for the church.
5. Therefore,
when we baptize children, parents traditionally commit to raising the
child in the Christian faith.
You have
made public profession of your faith. You should, therefore, faithfully
bring him/her to the services of God's house, teach him/her the Lord's
Prayer, the Creed and the Ten Commandments; you should place in his/her
hands the Holy Scriptures and provide for his/her instruction in the Christian
faith, that living in the covenant of his/her baptism, s/he may lead a
godly life until the day of Jesus Christ. Do you promise to fulfill these
obligations?
-- Baptismal liturgy, Lutheran Book of Worship, page 121
6. We
baptize privately only in an emergency.
Since we are baptized into the body of Christ by public profession of
faith, with a commitment of parents to raise the child in the Christian
faith, we usually do so in public worship. Baptism is a public act. It
is much like marriage. Two people can simply agree to live together if
they wish. But there is something powerful in a public commitment made
before a group of friends and family.
7. Baptism
is normally done in the community in which the adult or child will be
nurtured spiritually.
When a child is baptized, the parents commit to raise the child in the
Christian faith. The church also commits to be a part of that discipleship.
The families present will likely be Sunday school teachers, fellow worshippers,
Bible study leaders, Confirmation leaders, youth group leaders for the
child as s/he grows in years. Adults too are baptized before the community
in which they will grow spiritually, serve others and worship weekly.
To be baptized in front of a group of strangers who do not know the child,
and will not be a part of raising him/her in the Christian faith may be
efficacious, but it is incongruous and not the best case scenario.
8. Baptism
can be either by immersion or sprinkling.
Some church bodies teach that baptism is not effective unless the person
being baptized is completely immersed under the water. We certainly appreciate
the symbolism of immersion (drowning the old self, and rising out of the
water/grace into new life), but find no foundation in Scripture for such
a rigid practice. We normally practice pouring water over the head three
times, in the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit. We have done several
immersions, at the church next door, which has a baptistery.
How to
baptize a child
Congratulations. If you are considering baptizing a child, it may be that
you are new parents, or that you are baptizing children in early childhood
because you have had a renewal of your own faith. Here are some things
to do to prepare.
1. Pray.
It is likely the work of the Holy Spirit in you that has led you to this
point. Pray for the Spirit to continue working, and that you might not
hinder that Spirit working in your life.
2. Commit
to your own faith. Baptizing a child means becoming a mentor. You cannot
mentor another in the faith if you are not committed to your own. You
don't have to be a spiritual giant, just on the journey. Commit to weekly
worship, serving others in the name of Christ, finding a group of Christians
to whom you will be accountable, and giving generously, by tithing or
working towards a tithe (10% of income) to God's work in the world.
3. If you're
not a member, take the new member class. We strongly encourage you to
baptize the child in the faith community where that child will be nurtured
through worship, Sunday school, fellowship and service.
4. Meet with
the pastor. Pastor Mike will meet with you to go over the basics of baptism
and set a date on the calendar.
5. Choose
some sponsors or godparents. This is not required. Many couple choose
a sponsor or godparent who will support them in raising the child in the
Christian faith. Sponsors/godparents can fulfill this job by committing
to praying for the child weekly until the child is confirmed, or for the
rest of their life, by remembering the child's baptism day each year,
by providing Bibles or devotional materials, by walking alongside the
child through various milestones (first Bible, first Communion, Confirmation,
etc.).
6. Come to
a baptism rehearsal. The Saturday before the baptism, there will normally
be a short rehearsal at 10 a.m. (20 minutes) to help everyone know where
to go and what to do.
7. Throw
a party. This is a big day, whether the child knows it or not. Celebrate!
Invite friends and family to be a part of the event. Have brunch or lunch
together afterwards. Pop the cork. You have infused your child with the
gift of the Holy Spirit, and started him/her on a path of righteousness
that they will always sense is "home."
How to
get baptized
1. Pray.
If you're asking these kinds of questions, clearly something is happening
in your life. The Holy Spirit is at work already! Pray for God to work
strongly in your life. Confess your sins, past, present and future. Know
that God loves you with an everlasting love.
2. If you're
not a member, take the new member class. This is a great place to learn
a little bit about the Christian faith and to get plugged in to a group.
Your faith will grow if you feed it, through worship, learning, service
and fellowship. Come find out more. It is through baptism that you become
a member of the church.
3. Commit
to your faith. Commit to weekly worship, serving others in the name of
Christ, finding a group of Christians to whom you will be accountable,
and giving generously, by tithing or working towards a tithe (10% of income)
to God's work in the world.
4. Meet with
the pastor. Pastor Mike will meet with you to talk with you about your
faith, go over the basics of baptism and set a date on the calendar.
5. Choose
or receive some sponsors or godparents. Everyone who joins Grace usually
has a new member sponsor, whether or not they are new to the faith, whether
or not they are being baptized. This is an automatic friend in the congregation
to whom you may turn for help in finding your way into the church, and
into ministry.
6. Come to
a baptism rehearsal. The Saturday before the baptism, there will normally
be a short rehearsal at 10 a.m. (20 minutes) to help everyone know where
to go and what to do.
7. Throw
a party. This is a big day. Tell everyone you know what you are doing.
This will be a way of sharing what God is doing in your life, and also
a means of accountability. Know that the angels in heaven are rejoicing!
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